KUALA LUMPUR (Bernama) – The disapproving glances directed at autistic children brought to public places often break the hearts of their parents.
Despite the wealth of information shared through social media and the mass media, many people still fail to comprehend the situation faced by those with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) as well as the challenges of parenting an autistic child.
This sentiment was echoed by producer and composer Edry Abdul Halim, 48, after a recent incident where his special-needs son, Emery, 17, was treated rudely while dining at a restaurant here.
In a social media post, Edry expressed his disappointment over the incident and highlighted the stark contrast in how individuals with special needs are treated in Asia compared to the West.
He shared an incident in Manchester, England, where he and his wife Milia Mohammed were reprimanded by an elderly man for pulling Emery’s hand and demanding him to behave.
“That’s why most Asians prefer to keep their (special) children at home rather than taking them out in public, fearing judgmental looks from society,” said Edry, who hopes for greater sensitivity and inclusivity from the public to allow these children to enjoy life like everyone else.
Edry and Milia have four children, Emil, 24; Edylia, 21; Emery, 17; and Elya, 14.
Meanwhile, CPC International managing director and child psychologist Dr Noor Aishah Rosli said society must stop judging those who exhibit different behaviours and learn to understand the needs of these special individuals.
“It’s crucial for us to show empathy so we can interact or respond appropriately when encountering individuals like them. Everyone deserves respect and understanding,” she told Bernama.
Noor Aishah said the best way to assist autistic individuals struggling in public spaces is through education and social skills training.
“Parents and therapists should teach autistic children basic social skills, such as asking permission before taking something. Applied behaviour analysis therapy can be implemented to gradually improve their behaviour.
“However, not all autistic individuals can be taught using this method. It depends on the severity of their autism. Those with severe autism, particularly non-verbal individuals, require specialised care involving (the help of) special assistants or direct caregiving by parents,” she explained.
Noor Aishah also urged parents not to feel ashamed or guilty when they go out with their autistic children.
“Take your children wherever you go so that society can see and understand the uniqueness of individuals with autism. If someone looks at your child strangely, take the opportunity to explain to them,” she added.
She also called for increased autism awareness by leveraging all available platforms to educate the public.
“Don’t just use social media for entertainment or shopping. Read about psychology and learn about autism. Utilise these platforms because they’re free,” she said.
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