I could not agree more with the writer of the Opinion letter titled ‘Keep sick children home during Raya visits”, published in the Bulletin on April 5.
It is indeed inconsiderate for parents to bring along unwell children during festive visits, as doing so risks the health of others.
In addition to that important reminder, I would also like to share a few thoughts for parents with young children when making Hari Raya visits.
Children, by nature, are energetic and curious. We certainly can’t expect them to sit still throughout an entire visit, but it is important for parents to keep a close eye on their kids to avoid any accidental damage.
I’ve heard unfortunate stories of children breaking drinking glasses, spilling food or drinks on expensive carpets, or even damaging collectible items and intricate Lego models on display.
While the host may politely insist that “it’s okay,” we should not take such gestures at face value. It’s only respectful to be mindful of their home and belongings.
To avoid such situations, parents should brief their children before leaving the house.
Remind them to behave politely as guests, to respect the space they are in and to avoid running or handling things without permission.
Also, children should be taught proper etiquette around giving and receiving green packets – such as not asking for them outright or opening them in front of the host.
Promising a small treat or reward for good behaviour might also help encourage younger ones to stay on their best behaviour.
After all, the way a child conducts themselves often reflects on their upbringing, and we want to leave a good impression wherever we go.
Hari Raya is a time of joy, unity and forgiveness.
Let’s teach our children to honour the spirit of the celebration by being respectful guests and thoughtful members of our community.
Babu Hajah
