AFP – Freezing from horseback riding in the winter and helping her herder parents tend to livestock during summers spent outdoors – Bat-Erdene Khulan vividly remembers her childhood on Mongolia’s steppe.
She has since studied a master’s degree in Luxembourg, found work as a financial consultant and made Mongolia’s capital city Ulaanbaatar her family home after moving away from her nomadic roots.
For millennia, Mongolians have lived off the land with their livestock in round ger dwellings that they pack up and move with the seasons.
A quarter of Mongolia’s 3.4 million people still lead nomadic lives, according to the World Bank, but hundreds of thousands have moved over the past two decades into Ulaanbaatar, now home to half the population.
And it is women like Khulan, who won a government scholarship for her master’s and is now 36, who have led the transition.
Speaking to AFP in the Ulaanbaatar apartment where she lives with her husband and their seven-year-old son, Khulan said many others raised on the steppe like her have rejected a life of physical labour and fighting the elements.
“They choose to live differently in the city,” she said, where they are offered greater access to modern amenities, education and welfare.
Khorol Enkhtuya, 42, a civil servant specialising in welfare, was also among them.
She was raised in Bayan-Unjuul south of Ulaanbaatar by parents who hoped she would follow in their footsteps as herders.
“I read by candlelight,” she told AFP at a cafe near Ulaanbaatar’s Government Palace.
“I read folk stories. It was the only book I had, but half of it was torn,” she said.
“I kept reading the same story again and again – my mum thought: ‘She needs to pursue education.’”
Her parents sent her 150 kilometres (km) from home so she could attend secondary school.
Life in the city was not easy, Enkhtuya said, and during her university years she cooked, cleaned and babysat for families to pay rent while studying at night. Still, she felt lucky, as education was an opportunity that many older Mongolian women simply did not have.
Around 50km from the capital, Khulan’s mother, Sanduijav Altakhuyag, 60, told AFP she had missed out during the tumult of Mongolia’s transition to democracy.
“I want my kids to achieve what I didn’t,” she said.
Khulan’s parents have over the years moved closer to the capital city, though they still live as herders. Khulan tries to visit them as often as she can, dutifully helping her mother prepare lunch in the ger as her son, raised in the city, scampers through lush, green fields.
Not everyone has the opportunity to balance city and rural life in this way, she told AFP.
“The boys stay in the steppe, raising the animals, but girls go to cities, study and stay there working,” Khulan said. That reflects traditional Mongolian patriarchal norms: the son inherits the livestock and responsibility for the family’s livelihood.
But Khulan said that often means their “right to study is violated”.
In Khishig-Undur, Bulgan province, 25-year-old herder Luvsanbaldan Batsukh said he missed the opportunity to study as much as he had wanted.
He tried working two years as a construction worker in the city, but it wasn’t to his liking.
Now, he lives with his family in a small cluster of remote gers. He said life gets “lonely” in the winter, when temperatures plunge to well below zero and the days grow very short.
Finding a partner to share that life with is hard.
“The girls who grew up playing in the river here have moved to the city and don’t want to come back,”
Batsukh said, gazing out into the field as his goats munched on grass.
Further north, fellow herder Gan-Erdene Ganbat, 27, pins his hopes for fame, fortune and marriage on his prize horse, a fixture at local traditional races.
“If I have one thousand sheep, nobody knows me. If I have a single fast horse, the whole country will know me,” he told AFP after tending to his stallion, his friends nearby giddy from the day’s racing win. He acknowledged the isolation many of his fellow young herders felt: a dwindling social circle, arrogance from city dwellers who look down on rural folks, and slim opportunities for dating.
“Herders like us are very timid people. You talk to girls, but it’s very difficult for us to attract them,” he said.
“Nowadays, women tend to do things their own way and they prefer the city.”
Herders like him aren’t suited to that life, he insisted – despite the opportunities available.
“I tried to work in the city, but I realised I can’t be a salaryman,” he said. It’s “difficult seeing a cement roof instead of your livestock”, he said – a common refrain from herders, so accustomed to life outdoors and the freedom of the steppe.
Life in Ulaanbaatar isn’t easy: traffic and noise pollution are rife, and for months each year the city is enveloped in thick smog.
Many born-and-raised city dwellers in Mongolia believe that the countryside offers a better life, and some have joined a global back-to-the-land trend seen from China to the United States.
Among them is former skincare entrepreneur, Chagdgaa Battsetseg, who now fishes, herds goats and keeps bees for a living.
“The pollution in Ulaanbaatar city where I was born and grew up reached the highest level… it was terrible,” Battsetseg told AFP.
“One day I just decided to go to the countryside.”