Travelling solo as a woman can be one of the most liberating and enriching experiences. It offers a sense of freedom, the chance to explore new cultures, and a unique opportunity for self-reflection.
Ruth, a 26-year-old dietitian from England, recently spent some time in Brunei Darussalam on a work stint at a local farmstay.
Here, she shares her invaluable tips and tricks for solo female travellers, gleaned from her own experiences.
CHOOSING THE RIGHT ACCOMMODATION
When using platforms that connect travellers with hosts for work-exchange or volunteer opportunities, Ruth advises starting with places that have plenty of reviews.
“If you’re nervous, it’s always good to opt for a location where you can get a clear sense of how other travellers have experienced it,” she said.
Reviews can offer insights into both the host’s character and the environment, helping you to feel more secure before arriving.
These platforms are particularly popular for those seeking a more immersive travel experience, where you work in exchange for accommodation. It’s a great way to connect with locals while saving on expenses.
However, reviews remain essential in ensuring you’re comfortable and confident in your choice.
STAYING CONNECTED AND SAFE
Ruth stressed the importance of staying connected while abroad. Whether it’s by purchasing a local SIM card or using a portable Wi-Fi device, having access to the Internet is crucial.
“It’s not just for convenience but also for safety,” she explained. Having Internet access means you can always contact someone if you’re in trouble or need assistance.
Additionally, Ruth suggested memorising local emergency numbers, particularly for the police, though she adds that she’s never needed to use them.
Being aware of local safety tips is equally important. “Think about the things you would do in your own country to stay safe, like avoiding quiet streets at night,” she added. Every country has its own set of risks and it’s essential to stay vigilant and aware of your surroundings.
RESEARCH THE CULTURE
Cultural sensitivity is something Ruth takes seriously when travelling.
“Before visiting a new country, it’s important to do your research and understand local customs,” she advised.
Whether it’s knowing how to dress appropriately or understanding certain behaviours that may be considered disrespectful, cultural awareness is key to ensuring you’re respectful to the people you meet.
For example, in countries where modesty is highly valued, dressing conservatively is a sign of respect. Similarly, understanding the appropriate ways to greet people or interact with locals can go a long way in building positive relationships.
Ruth’s experiences in Brunei highlighted the importance of being sensitive to local traditions and adapting accordingly, especially when you’re a guest in someone’s country.
OFFLINE MAPS ARE YOUR FRIEND
One thing Ruth always does before heading off on a new adventure is downloading offline maps. “I pin important locations and make a note of routes I’ll need to take, so even if I lose internet connection, I still know where I’m going,” she said.
Having offline maps is a lifesaver, especially in remote areas or places with spotty Wi-Fi. Apps like Google Maps allow users to download areas for offline use, which means you can still navigate confidently even when data is unavailable.
In addition to mapping out your routes, she recommended marking places that may be of interest, such as local markets, cafes, or transport hubs. This allows you to make the most of your time exploring and helps avoid confusion or unnecessary detours.
TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS
One of Ruth’s most valuable pieces of advice is to trust your instincts. “Most people you meet are genuinely kind and want to help,” she says.
“But there will always be a small minority who don’t have the best intentions”.
She encouraged female travellers to stay attuned to their gut feelings, especially when something doesn’t feel right. “If an experience or a situation doesn’t sit well with you, don’t hesitate to walk away or say no”.
It’s important to keep your boundaries firm and not feel pressured to go along with something that makes you uncomfortable. Sometimes, the most empowering thing you can do is simply trust your intuition and put your safety first.
START IN POPULAR BACKPACKER DESTINATIONS
If it’s your first time travelling solo, Ruth suggests starting in a popular backpacker destination.
“You’ll meet other travellers who can offer advice and tips, and you won’t feel as isolated,” she said. Hostels and homestays often provide opportunities to socialise with other like-minded travellers.
When you’re just starting out, connecting with other solo travellers can provide a sense of security and reassurance. Plus, you can learn from their experiences and avoid some common pitfalls.
GRADUALLY EXPAND YOUR HORIZONS
Once you’ve built your confidence in solo travel, then you can start stepping off the beaten path.
“Brunei, for example, is less popular than other Southeast Asian destinations, so you’ll likely meet more seasoned travellers,” she said.
While Brunei might not have the same tourist traffic as places like Bali or Thailand, it offers unique opportunities to engage with a different culture and landscape.
As you gain more experience, you’ll feel more comfortable venturing into less touristy places. The more you travel, the more you’ll trust your ability to handle unexpected situations and navigate unfamiliar environments.
BE OPEN TO NEW EXPERIENCES
Travelling solo can push you out of your comfort zone, but it’s also an opportunity to embrace new experiences.
“Say yes to new experiences, but don’t feel like you have to do everything,” she says. “If something doesn’t feel right, it’s okay to opt out.” Solo travel is all about finding a balance between exploration and self-care. It’s an opportunity to learn more about yourself while connecting with new cultures and people.
By staying open and flexible, you’ll enrich your journey and create memories that will last a lifetime. – Features Desk
