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    ‘Spare’ but not stingy

    (AP) – From the book’s opening citation of William Faulkner, to Prince Harry’s passionate bond with his wife Meghan, you could almost call the Duke of Sussex’s memoir The Americanisation of Prince Harry.

    Bereaved boy, troubled teen, wartime soldier, unhappy royal, many facets of Prince Harry are revealed in his explosive memoir, often in eyebrow-raising detail.

    Running throughout is Harry’s desire to be a different kind of prince, the kind who talks about his feelings, eats fast food and otherwise doesn’t hide beyond a prim facade.

    LIKE AN AMERICAN

    From accounts of drug use to raw family rifts, Spare exposes deeply personal details about Harry and the wider royal family. Even Americans may flinch when he confides that a trip to the North Pole left him with frostbitten nether region that proved most irritating during his brother’s wedding to Kate.

    BROTHERHOOD

    The book opens with a famous quote from Faulkner, bard of the American South, “The past is never dead. It’s not even past.”

    Harry’s story is dominated by his rivalry with elder brother Prince William and the death of the boys’ mother, Princess Diana, in 1997. Harry, who was 12 at the time, has never forgiven the media for Diana’s death in a car crash while being pursued by photographers.

    The loss of his mother haunts the book, which Harry dedicates to Meghan, children Archie and Lili “and, of course, my mother”.

    File photo of Prince William, Kate the Duchess of Cambridge, Prince Harry and Meghan the Duchess of Sussex, at Buckingham Palace in London. PHOTOS: AP
    Copies of the new book ‘Spare’ by Prince Harry are held by a member of staff of a book store in London
    Prince Harry wears his monocle gun as he sits in the front seat of his cockpit at the British controlled flight-line in Camp Bastion southern Afghanistan

    The opening chapter recounts how his father Prince Charles, now King Charles III, broke the news of his mother’s accident, but didn’t give his son a hug.

    Harry reveals that years later he asked his driver to take him through the Pont de l’Alma tunnel in Paris, site of the fatal crash, hoping in vain that it would help end a “decade of unrelenting pain”. He also said he once consulted a woman who claimed to have “powers” and to be able to pass on messages from Diana.

    Harry adds that he and William both “pleaded” with their father not to marry his long-term paramour Camilla Parker-Bowles, worried she would become a “wicked stepmother”.

    Harry also is tormented by his status as royal “spare” behind William, who is heir to the British throne. Harry recounts a longstanding sibling rivalry that worsened after Harry began a relationship with Meghan, the American actor whom he married in 2018.

    He said that during an argument in 2019, William called Meghan “difficult” and “rude” (the kind of insults an upper class Englishman might reserve for Americans), then grabbed him by the collar and knocked him down. Harry suffered cuts and bruises from landing on a dog bowl.

    Harry said Charles implored the brothers to make up, saying after the funeral of Prince Philip in 2021, “Please, boys, don’t make my final years a misery”.

    Neither Buckingham Palace, which represents King Charles III, nor William’s Kensington Palace office has commented on any of the allegations.

    ADMIRATION FOR GRANDPARENTS

    Harry writes with admiration and some affection about Queen Elizabeth II and Prince Phillip. He remembers Phillip’s “many passions, carriage driving, barbecuing, shooting, food,” and above all how he “embraced life”, as did his mother. “Maybe that was why he’d been such a fan” of Princess Diana, Harry recalls.

    Meanwhile, he acknowledges being intimidated at times by his grandmother, if only because she was the Queen. She is no more helpful than anyone else in containing the media leaks, but she is often seen as sympathetic to his wishes, never more so than when she approved of his marriage of Meghan.

    Harry also sees her as an engaging, even humourous person beyond her otherwise proper bearing. Reflecting on her death last year he remembers whispering jokes into her ear or convincing her to participate in a widely seen promotional video of the Invictus Games, in which she one-ups the Obamas in a sparring contest.

    “She was a natural comedienne,” he writes, calling her “wicked sense of humour” a prized confidence between the two. “In every photo of us, whenever we’re exchanging a glance, making solid eye contact, it’s clear. We had secrets.”

    WILD TEENAGE YEARS

    The memoir suggests the media’s party-boy image of Harry during his teen and young adult years was well-deserved.

    He also says he took drugs several times starting at the same age, in order to “feel different”.

    ARMY REVELATIONS

    Harry offers extensive memories of his decade in the British Army, serving twice in Afghanistan. He said that on his second tour, as an Apache helicopter co-pilot and gunner in 2012-2013, he killed 25 Taleban militants.

    Harry said he felt neither satisfaction nor shame about his actions, and in the heat of battle regarded enemy combatants as pieces being removed from a chessboard, “Bads taken away before they could kill Goods.”

    Veterans criticised the comments and said they could increase the security risk for Harry. Retired Colonel Richard Kemp said it was “an error of judgement”, and regarding enemy fighters as chess pieces is “not the way the British Army trains people”.

    “I think that sort of comment that doesn’t reflect reality is misleading and potentially valuable to those people who wish the British forces and British government harm,” he told the BBC.

    The Taleban returned to power in Afghanistan in 2021, and Harry’s words have drawn protests in the country.

    Afghan Foreign Ministry spokesman Abdul Qahar Balkhi called the Western invasion of Afghanistan “odious” and said Harry’s comments “are a microcosm of the trauma experienced by Afghans at the hands of occupation forces who murdered innocents without any accountability”.

    A REGULAR GUY

    Yes, he’s a Prince, but he isn’t above stopping by for burgers and fries at an In-N-Out, or getting clothes from a chain outlet.

    He’s also a compulsive watcher of Friends and relates most to the wisecracking Chandler Bing, played by Matthew Perry. And because he’s a prince, he got to meet another Friends star, Courteney Cox, and indulge in chocolate psychedelic mushrooms at her Los Angeles home.

    THE REAL VILLAIN

    Harry shares painful words about his father and brother, but his real anger is directed at the British media, and at those within the royal circle who cooperated and otherwise stood aside.

    While Charles remains apparently indifferent to the press, the rest of the family is obsessed with media coverage, Harry writes, himself as much as any of them.

    He expresses despair over what he calls endlessly false stories about him, the racist caricatures of his wife and of the press’ unnerving knowledge of his whereabouts and private correspondence.

    “One has to have a relationship with the press,” he is told by the royal staff.

    PERSONAL JOURNEY

    Harry credits Meghan with changing the way he sees the world and himself. He said he was “awash in isolation and privilege” and had no understanding of unconscious bias before he met her.

    The young prince notoriously wore a Nazi uniform to a costume party in 2005, and claims in the book that William and his now-wife Kate encouraged the choice of outfit and “howled” with laughter when they saw it.

    He was recorded using a racist term about a fellow soldier of Pakistani descent in 2006, but said he did not know the word was a slur and that the soldier was not offended.

    Meghan and Harry cited the United Kingdom media’s treatment of the biracial American actor as one of the main reasons for their decision to quit royal duties and move to the United States in 2020.

    The book gives no sign that royal family relations will be repaired soon.

    Harry told ITV in an interview to promote the book that he wants reconciliation, but that there must be “accountability” first.

    In the final pages, Harry describes how he and William walked side by side during the funeral procession of Queen Elizabeth II in September, but spoke barely a word to one another.

    “The following afternoon, Meg and I left for America,” he said.

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