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Pandemic pushes for quality time

Mike Schneider

AP – During the first several months of the pandemic in the United States (US), Dina Levy made her young daughter and son go on walks with her three times a day.

They kicked a ball around at the nearby high school. The children, then 11 and eight, created an obstacle course out of chalk and the three timed each other running through it. They also ate all their meals together.

Levy is among scores of parents who indicated in a new survey from the US Census Bureau that they spent more time eating, reading and playing with their children from March 2020 to June 2020, when coronavirus lockdowns were at their most intense, than they had in previous years.

“With school and work, you split up and go your own way for the day, but during coronavirus, we were a unit,” said Levy, an attorney who lives in New Jersey. “It really was, I don’t want to say worthwhile since this pandemic has been so awful for so many people, but there was a lot of value to us as a family.”

In a report on the survey released this week, the Census Bureau includes some caveats: A large number of people did not respond. Also, compared to previous years, more of the parents in this survey were older, foreign-born, married, educated and above the poverty level.

The survey also does not measure the long-term impact of the pandemic, which is now entering its third calendar year, so it is unknown whether the increased time with the children has stuck.

The findings of the Survey of Income and Programme Participation are based on interviews with one parent from 22,000 households during the first four months of the pandemic in the US.

The survey found that the proportion of meals the so-called reference parents shared with their children increased from 84 to 85 per cent from 2018 to 2020, and from 56 to 63 per cent for the other parents.

Some parents also read to their kids more in 2020 compared to previous years, though there were variations based on income, education and other factors. In 2020, 69 per cent of parents reported reading to young children five or more times per week compared with 65 per cent in 2018, and 64 per cent in 2019, the report said.

“Families knew before the pandemic that they were overstressed. Kids had so many places to be. Parents were juggling an awful lot,” Co-Director of the Chicago Center for Family Health at the University of Chicago Froma Walsh said in a phone interview. “The pandemic made people not go to work, and our kids were home. It really helped parents to say, ‘Hey, wait a minute. We are able to have real family time together that we weren’t before.’”

On the flip side, the report found that outings with children decreased for parents because of travel restrictions and lockdowns, dropping from 85 per cent in 2018 and 87 per cent in 2019 to 82 per cent in 2020. The drop was starkest for solo parents, going from 86 per cent in 2019 to 75 per cent in 2020, according to the survey.

The pandemic also strained many families. The death of loved ones, job losses, financial worries, remote learning, social isolation, and the demands of child and elder care all took a heavy toll, Walsh said.

“The key point is families have experienced extreme stress and strain over the course of this prolonged pandemic,” Walsh said.

She said her research shows that families do best when they share positive values, take a creative approach to problem-solving and have the flexibility to adapt.

“Those families that can pull together and practise resilience are doing well, and it actually strengthens their bonds,” she said.

That was certainly the case for Eugene Brusilovskiy, a statistician living in suburban Philadelphia. He said the pandemic allowed him to be with his daughter, who was born during the early months of the virus’s spread. Since he was working from home, he and

his wife decided not to put her in daycare as originally planned.
“I was involved in every routine, everything from feeding her to changing her diapers,” Brusilovskiy said.

“I was able to spend real quality time, to go on walks and watch all of those first milestones that I wouldn’t have been able to do otherwise.”


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