AP – Financial decisions are rarely easy, whether it’s buying your first car or home, or deciding whether to refinance student loans.
The anxiety can be heightened for millennials who witnessed economic turmoil during the Great Recession as they weigh milestone financial choices as adults.
“Many (millennials) grew up and saw their parents lose a house or have to delay retirement,” said a financial psychologist and associate professor at Creighton University, Brad Klontz. “Of course, they are going to be anxious.”
In fact, a survey this year by insurance company Northwestern Mutual found that this generation not only has a stronger inclination to make financial plans compared with older generations, but also has a higher level of anxiety about whether they are following the right strategy.
The survey found that 66 per cent of millennials (those born from 1981 to 1996) said they were “highly disciplined” or “disciplined” financial planners, compared with 60 per cent of Generation X (born 1965-1980) and 52 per cent of baby boomers (born 1946-1964).
At the same time, 70 per cent of millennials said their financial planning needs improvement. That’s compared with 68 per cent of Gen Xers and 52 per cent of baby boomers.
There are ways to reduce the stress of financial decisions. Start by identifying your attitude towards money. Then, take action in a way that’s tailored for you and turn to others who have been there.
KNOW YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS MONEY
Most of us grow up with a specific approach towards money, often learnt from our parents, imbibed from those around us or informed by our own experiences.
Being aware of your relationship with money can help you avoid pitfalls like worrying too much. Klontz, the author of several books on finances and psychology, said he’s found four common approaches to money: worship, avoidance, vigilance and status.
For example, those who are vigilant about money always worry about having enough and experience trouble making spending decisions. On the other hand, avoiders don’t look at bills or statements until they absolutely have to, Klontz said.
Another source of insight about your financial mindset is Gretchen Rubin‘s book The Four Tendencies, which explores what drives people’s decisions. She categorises people as obligers, questioners, rebels and upholders (You can take Rubin’s online quiz to see which one you are).
“Your ‘tendency’ shapes your perspective on the world and influences what kinds of (financial) strategies will work for you,” Rubin said. For example, a ‘questioner’ likes doing their own research and will only seek outside counsel they trust, Rubin said.
TAKE ACTIONS TAILORED TO YOU
Once you’ve identified your attitude toward money, use that knowledge to ease the anxiety of financial decisions.
MAKE A TO-DO LIST
People who don’t know where to begin can start by making a financial to-do list, said author of Personal Finance for Dummies and a former financial advisor Eric Tyson. You could calculate how much money you earn and spend every month or add tasks like saving money for a goal or getting your credit in shape for a loan.
“Prioritise it, get some early victories,” he said. “Don’t beat yourself up thinking you’ve got to do it quickly.”
If you’re an ‘obliger’ and want to save up for a goal, use accountability to get started and stay motivated, Rubin said. That may be in the form of friends, a financial advisor or thinking about what you want in the future, she said.
VISUALISE THE END GOAL
If you are a ‘rebel’ who doesn’t like being told what to do and wants to pay off debt, think of the freedom you’ll have when you’re debt-free. Set up automatic payments so you don’t have to think about them, Rubin said. The automatic payments option is effective for anyone, she noted.
TURN TO OTHERS FOR GUIDANCE
Tyson said the biggest mistake he’s seen people make is that they don’t get advice – or rely on one source – before making a financial decision.
“If your Uncle Joe seems financially savvy, you can run your thinking by him, but you should be selective about taking one person’s advice as gospel,” Tyson said.
Do your own research in addition to talking with family or friends. Consider visiting a personal finance website or downloading an app to help manage your money.
If you want an expert’s perspective, turn to a fiduciary fee-only financial advisor. Advisors who are paid by fees only, not commissions, have fewer conflicts of interest; those who follow the fiduciary standard put clients’ interests ahead of their own. Or you can set up a free consultation with a non-profit credit counselor.